Taking that first step can be daunting. But don't worry, I'll share proven tricks to ease into solo traveling.
Getting Started with Solo Traveling
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I recently got this question from a friend:
"How to get into solo traveling?"
Everyone should try solo traveling at least a couple of times to see if it's for them. It's incredibly liberating to do exactly what you want, and once you realize that you bring the party with you, you can have fun in any situation.
But even for those interested, taking that first step can be daunting.
I remember my first solo trip to New Orleans—I felt so nervous about eating and traveling alone. At a restaurant, I was convinced the couple sitting across from me was judging me harshly. My mind started racing with imagined thoughts:
"That's sad that he's eating by himself."
"He's such a loser."
But guess what? I survived. Those thoughts were all in my head.
In fact, I soon realized nobody even noticed me.
That realization was eye-opening.
Don't worry though—in this newsletter, I'll share some proven tricks to ease into solo traveling.
Before answering the main question, let's address one key mindset shift that makes solo traveling seem difficult.
Many assume it's about being shy, but
that's not it. I've seen extremely extroverted people feel terrified about traveling alone. Interestingly, these same people have no trouble chatting with strangers or meeting new people in their hometown.
Here's the real problem:
Society often suggests there's something wrong with solo
travelers, and this social pressure makes it hard to begin.
Remember how until recently, society believed people couldn't work productively from home? We've proven that wrong, so don't let these outdated social rules hold you back.
Here's how to get started:
Start in your hometown by dining alone during dinner. After a few times, you'll realize it's not that bad. Not sure what to do while eating? Simple—use your phone like you normally would! I prefer reading while eating since I usually finish my food in about 10 minutes.
Join a group trip but schedule some solo activities. Think of it as sampling solo travel. This approach actually makes group trips more enjoyable since
everyone gets to pursue their individual interests without compromise.
Do something you truly love by yourself—whether it's watching movies, pursuing hobbies, or attending a music festival. You'll find yourself having so much fun that doing things alone becomes just as good as doing them with others.
Once you're comfortable with these steps, try a tank trip to a nearby state. I covered this topic a few weeks ago.
Now, I'm perfectly at ease solo traveling. Actually, I think this self-sufficiency makes me a better travel companion too.
Try these tricks and let me know what you think.
Keep Traveling,
Andrew
If you’re hesitant from solo traveling? What’s stopping you?
Cocktail of the Week
The Black Velvet cocktail was invented in 1861 in London, England, at the Brooks’s Club. It was created by a bartender mourning the death of Prince Albert, Queen Victoria’s husband, symbolizing the somber occasion with the dark layers of the drink.
Ingredients:
1 part Guinness (or another stout beer)
1 part chilled champagne
Preparation:
Fill a champagne flute halfway with Guinness.
Slowly pour the chilled champagne over the
back of a spoon to layer it on top of the stout.
Random Travel Thought
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The Plug
Cheap flights:
Going.com: This might be the only discounted flights website you need.It’s a paid service that sends you notifications when deals become available, but they expire in a couple of days so Act Fast!!
Secret Flying 🤫: This website emails you about free flight opportunities and even better… it doesn’t cost a thing!!
Skyscanner: An older, but still reliable website that’s also *FREE* so there’s no reason not to use it. Use the "Explore the World" feature and set your departure date to "Whole Month" to find the cheapest deals.
Insurance:
Safety Wing: I use Safety Wing as my travel insurance because the plans are flexible. You can easily insure a 1-week trip for like $11 dollars which is less than the cost of a cocktail at the bar.
Travel Gear
Compression socks: Sitting for extended periods of time is not good for the body, so keep
yourself healthy enough to go on more trips.Link
Apple AirTags: Consider getting Apple AirTags for the peace of mind of always knowing where your luggage is. Link
Smart Phone holder: It's a foldable sheet that can be used as a stand for your iPhone or iPad.Link
Packing cubes: Having a separate container works wonders for keeping clothes wrinkle-free. It also makes packing/unpacking much easier.Link
Donut Power Strip: Power outlets are always in demand, but sometimes they're in weird spots. I use this bagel because it's lightweight, and I don't have to think about it.Link
Travel Case Organizer: Cable organizers can be a pain, but this is what I use to keep my cables organized. Link
Backup batteries: I like these backup batteries because they have three important components for me: 1. They have enough power to recharge my phone multiple times at
once, 2. Are small enough to put in my pocket, and 3. Are sturdy enough to survive a fall. Link
Yoga Mat: I use this thin mat to get my stretching in even when I'm traveling. Link
Jump Rope: It's so easy to bring a jump rope with you for exercise because it weighs almost nothing and takes up no space. Link
Liquid IV: Great for hydration to keep you from dying. When you're traveling,
it's time to live it up! Link
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