I'm currently writing this from a Starbucks in Porto, Portugal.
Don't judge me! All the other cafes closed early.
My day was jam-packed. I took three tours today and
visited a bookstore that inspired the Harry Potter books. (video in progress)
After I finish this article, I'm going to take a nap and then go eat dinner.
In this issue, I want to share the most common ways that Americans unintentionally upset locals while traveling abroad. This isn't just about avoiding offense — it's about
ensuring small cultural misunderstandings don't get in the way of creating amazing memories and having the time of your life!
Let's dive in:
- Speaking too loudly. Americans typically speak at a higher volume than people in other cultures. When traveling abroad, try to match the volume level of those around you and avoid being the
loudest person in the room.
- Being judgmental. Criticizing how other people do
things is the fastest way to offend locals. While Americans often focus on efficiency and "the best way" to do things, remember that different doesn't mean wrong. If something seems unusual to you, simply observe and move on — there's no need to comment.
- Being messy. Think of visiting another country like being a guest in someone's “home.” Even if the standards of cleanliness differ from
what you're used to, always try to leave places better than you found them. You wouldn't appreciate a guest being disrespectful in your “home.”
- Acting entitled. Don't assume you know how things work or that you can do whatever you want. When in doubt, ask for permission first. This shows respect for local customs and usually leads to positive interactions.
- Ignoring local customs. Watch what locals do and try to follow their lead. Even if you don't get it
exactly right, making an effort to participate appropriately shows respect.
- Speaking only English. Take time to learn basic greetings and "thank you" in the local language. Locals are often pleasantly surprised when visitors make this small effort, and it can lead to warmer interactions.
Remember, when we travel, we represent our country to the world.
While most Americans are respectful travelers, a few bad examples can create negative impressions. By following these guidelines, you'll not only have better experiences but also help build positive connections across cultures.
